Half the time I end up running after my son who is trying to talk to all the girls wearing thong bikinis. He can't control himself whenever he goes to the beach.
I like sitting out in a chair with a good book, a wide brimmed hat, sunglasses and sun block and just spending time with me. No husband, kids or family members around to get me upset about what they're doing. I recommend taking time out for yourself and heading out to the ocean anytime you can. You'll thank yourself.